Good Morning!
Deuteronomy
31:8; “It is the Lord who goes
before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Do not
fear or be dismayed.”
One of the worst experiences
for us as humans is to feel all alone.
Many of our popular songs in some way or form lament about being
alone. It might be a country song or an
old rock song, a folk song, or a new modern song. We worry about being alone. For many, this is a great fear and anxiety;
they fear ending up alone. I know that
numerous times I have spoken to older couples and each party wants to be the
first to die. It is not that they seek
death but they would rather die than live alone. It is difficult for us to live alone.
We, as humans, are really
social and gregarious creatures. We seek
companionship and fellowship. It is how
we were created. God made man and then
made woman so that they would have companionship together. They would love together and, together, this
bond would be the basic bond or building block for our society and
civilization. The need for this bond is
what drives men and women to seek companionship, to be inclusive in our
gatherings, and to look after those around us.
We seek companionship, love, acceptance, being valued and
treasured. These are all part of what it
means to be human; to be the creatures that God created us to be.
It is also one of our
weaknesses that the devil and our sinful nature attempt to attack and
exploit. It usually occurs in tandem
with another stressful or painful event in our life. We may have lost a spouse and suddenly we
feel completely alone. We may have lost
a job or some other form of income and we are no longer able to be in our group
of friends and now we are on the outside looking in and we feel alone. We may have health issues which separate from
the life we had and now we feel alone.
We feel we are facing the illness alone; we are facing a change in our
life alone; we are facing each day without that person who has always been
there and now we are alone.
The devil takes stressful
events, whispers in our ear, feeds our doubts and our uncertainties and with a
practiced voice and meter begins to try and separate you from God. He tries to lead you away from God’s
family. He fills your head with lies and
your heart with anxiety. He tells you
that you are all alone and you fear and anxieties mount. The lie is false; you are not alone God is
with you but the anxiety and the fear are real; you feel the pain.
So, keep your eyes focused on
God; he will not abandon you. He will
comfort you and he will use those around you to do so. Seek them out; they will not abandon you. God’s Spirit will move them to you. Experience God’s grace; know that his love
for you knows no bounds. He will never
abandon you or leave you alone. When
that fear or anxiety strikes, turn it over to God and he will restore you.
Father of all goodness; keep
me in your loving arms. Hold me tightly
to your chest so that I may never know the pain of loneliness. And when the devil lies to me, give me the reassurance
of your loving grace. Send to me you
Spirit to keep me comforted. In the precious name of Jesus we pray, amen.
God’s Peace,
Pastor Bret