Friday, November 30, 2018

11-30-2018


Good Morning All,
         Psalm 119:50; “This is my comfort in my misery:  Your promise gave me a new life.”
       So when you are down or sad or just in need of comfort, where do you turn?  Many of us turn to food.  In fact, we have a whole host of food that we call “comfort food”.  It seems that much comfort food has a common element; it is simple.  The favorite comfort food listed is macaroni and cheese.  It doesn’t get much simpler than that.  Other foods are meatloaf, fried chicken, some put tuna sandwiches on the list but I prefer shrimp and grits.  There is chicken potpie or chicken noodle soup or mashed potatoes and gravy.  Personally, I prefer pie and ice cream.
     It is interesting how we turn to food for comfort.  I suppose part of it goes back to our early childhood when a full tummy and a soft blanket solved all the world’s problems.  Part of our comfort from food may be this.  It also may be that preparing simple food doesn’t require a lot of thought allows us to “mull” while we work.  It also might be that simple foods, foods that we associate with growing up or home, gives us a sense of being home, safe from all the struggles of the world and it may even remind us of simpler times.  It might remind us of times when our big decisions were which color shirt to wear.  It might have the effect of reminding us of the safety we found in the walls of our childhood home.
     At times of stress or sorrow we often seek comfort.  From the time we are a child and seek mom or dad to kiss an “owie” through our younger years when that certain boy or girl who was “to die for” turned us down; we sought comfort.  When the stress of a job or a lack of rain, or low prices causes us to wonder about decisions made; we seek comfort.  We seek comfort from different sources whether it is food, family or perhaps the solace of a quiet space.  All of these may offer a temporary respite, the stress or the sorrow may return.  We need to find a place of lasting comfort and that is in God’s grace.
    The Apostle Paul tells us that “for those who love God, all things work together.”  Now that doesn’t mean that there won’t be some pain or struggle.  What it means is that we will never face it alone, never be left to be left dangling in the pain or sorrow.  God gives us comfort.  We take comfort in the certainty of his promise.  God has made to us a promise, delivered at our Baptism, to always hold us close to him.  He has promised to always give to us the forgiveness of sins and to always call us back to his loving mercy.  This mercy is always extended to us at all times.
    When the stress or pain of this world expresses itself in our life, God is ever present and ready to provide for us the words of comfort that we need to live our life in the contented and restful manner that God seeks to give us.  He is our hope and comfort, at all times.
Father of mercy, you are our only true source of comfort.  You are our only safe place.  Give us the wisdom to know this and the faith to trust in you as our rock and our fortress.  Father, there are many who struggle with the pain and the sadness of this world.  Give to them your Spirit of comfort that they may know your peace.  In the precious name of Jesus we pray, amen.
God’s Peace,
Pastor Bret 

Thursday, November 29, 2018

11-29-2018


Good Morning All,
        1 Samuel 16:7b; “God does not see as humans see.  Humans look at outward appearances, but the Lord looks into the heart.”
       Do you remember Eddie Haskell form the “Leave It To Beaver” show?  He was probably the first TV character that really rubbed me the wrong way.  I remember thinking, “they can’t believe him.  He is as phony as a three dollar bill,” Now I was only about 6 or 7 at the time, so I thought this was a real life event. Yet I still remember fuming at him.  He was so “gooey” to the adults and just a rat to Beaver.  I would almost tell the TV to “wake up; he’s not a nice guy!”  Of course, I was much older when I realized that this was a TV show that was scripted and plotted out.  Still, Eddie still makes me grumpy.
     The problem with real life is that we don’t get to read the script of life.  So the Eddie Haskells of the world may slip by us once in a while.  We are often blinded by a person’s looks, or wealth, or the way they talk.  We tend to look and if it is pleasant to look at, we like it.  This is one of the reasons that restaurants arrange food on a plate so it looks better.  It is one of the reasons that do it yourself stores have the grills put together to see or have the patio set up in the store; if it looks nice in the store it will look nice in your backyard.  We tend to listen to and buy into how things look or sound as we make our judgment.  If it looks good or sounds good, we are for it.
      This can get us into all sorts of trouble; most of us can relate to past experiences where it looked good but was a flop.  Perhaps you have even experienced a relationship or two that went the same way.  It looked good at the start but it went “Eddie Haskell” on you in a hurry; maybe you were the Eddie Haskell.  Yet there are times when we are wrong in our estimation of people.  Too often, we are shallow in our view of people.  We only see the outside and make our judgment accordingly.  The shallow look is often wrong; it takes a deeper look.  It takes a look that we often fail to take because we can’t always see into the heart but that is where we need to look.
    God looks at the heart; he sees the desire of man and knows whose is sinful and whose seeks God’s way.  He looks at your heart; not your wallet or the way you look on the outside.  God looks at who we are not what we look like.  So God encourages us to look deeper as well.  He encourages us to look at what others do, how they treat others, especially those who cannot help them in return.  God measure for us to use is how we show his love to others.  This is what Jesus told his disciples and it is what he tells us.
    Our tools are limited so we may miss once in a while but God calls upon us to show his love to others.  How others show his love is to be our standard for those who are around us.  Sharing God’s love is always the key.
Father, help me to look deeper to see those around me that share your love with others.  Help me to share your love with those around me.  Together, let us be your agents here on earth to spread your mercy to the broken and downcast.  Use us to lift them up and to restore them to your kingdom.  In Jesus’ precious name we pray, amen
God’s Peace,
Pastor Bret       

Wednesday, November 28, 2018

11-28-2018


Good Morning All,
          Psalm 88:3; “For my soul is full of troubles, and my life draws near to Sheol.”
     There has been a lot in the news about depression and suicide these last few days.  It is the time of year when it seems to be worse.  Most of us probably have a pretty good grasp of the pain of suicide.  We may have lost a child or parent, a cousin or spouse, a friend or someone else very close to us.  It is painful and is really one of the devil’s vilest schemes.
     Depression and other illnesses are opportunities that the devil thrives on.  The devil will whisper to the one who suffers in a relentless attack to drive them further from God.  The devil will whisper and whisper until, in a moment of great pain, the sufferer can bear no more and, in a moment, makes a decision that cannot be undone by human hands.  The family and friends are left in anguish wondering what they missed or should have seen.  They should have been there; they could have helped so grief is compounded with guilt and the devil laughs with glee while you and I are left to pick up the pieces. 
    Yet, despite what looks like a win for the devil, it truly isn’t.  We have all sinned in one form or another and we all get to heaven the same way.  We fully, completely and totally rely on God’s grace and favor.  We rest in his loving arms, at all times.  We can only cling to his wonderful promise of hope and salvation.  The Apostle Paul tells us that “nothing can separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord”.  Nothing, absolutely nothing, can separate us from God’s love.  This is a promise from God who created all and knows all.  God knows what is out there and he still promises that nothing will separate us from his love.
    So if you have had a loved one who took their own life, know without a doubt that they have a loving God who looks upon them with grace upon grace.  God looks past all the extra stuff and knows the faith that lives within us.  He looks upon each of us with his grace and mercy.  He looks to us with his loving kindness and desires that we be saved. Know too that it was not your fault; you are not to blame.  The blame has belonged to and will always belong to the devil and his murderous lies.  The devil has been referred to as the “father of all lies” and the “father of all murderers.”  It is pretty safe to see where the real fault lies.
    So while suicide is painful and destructive, it does not mean that we are cut off from God.  It means what it means; that in this world sin still abounds and the devil still tries to trick and confuse God’s children.  Sometimes he succeeds at confusing us but not at separating us from God’s love.  Never forget that; we are never separated from God’s love and grace.  He holds us close even at times like these.  Actually, it is definitely at times like these; for at times like this God’s love is our only hope.
Father of mercy, many hear the whispers of the devil.  Some answer in their pain.  Father before you we are all beggars.  Comfort your people with your mercy.  Be with those who are being tempted by the devil and his lies.  Give them the strength to withstand.  Help us to recognize more quickly the needs of those around us and give us the words and wisdom to come to their aid.  In your precious name we pray, amen.
God’s Peace,
Pastor Bret