Good
Morning All,
Exodus 20:16; “You shall
not bear false witness against your neighbor.”
The South Dakota District of
the LC-MS sponsors a television program called “Main Street Living.” To help keep the costs down, the pastors of
the district volunteer to preach. It
works out to about once a year. It is an
interesting process. The recording crew
will adjust the lighting and then the shutter opening on the cameras. They do all this so that the preacher will
look as good as possible. They eliminate
shadows or dark spots; they try to eliminate too much light that makes you look
pale and washed out. If, as you are
preaching, you misspeak or make a mistake; they just edit it out and the
broadcast can go on flawlessly. If only
we would do that in real life.
When Martin Luther wrote his explanation to
this commandment, he added the phrase “put the best construction on
everything.” In other words, try to see
the best in another person. This becomes
essential when we are looking at forgiving others. When we try to see the best in others,
forgiveness comes easier than when we look for the worst in a person. When we look for the best, we are looking
through eyes of love. When we look for
the worst, we are looking through the eyes of selfishness.
One example that can happen easily would be
if you called your favorite pastor at 10:30 in the morning and got him out of
bed. What would you think? Would you think that he must have stayed up
late with a member who was in a crisis or would you think “that lazy bum?” How we view things, how we think events occur
serve a huge part of our reaction and response.
So, if your spouse promised to do something for you and he forgot, how
do you respond? Do we think, “my spouse
is so busy that it slipped their mind” or is it more like, “they would forget
their head if it weren’t attached?”
Because, if we go the negative route; we make it more difficult for us
to forgive because we see it as a deliberate, or at least a careless, attack on
us. When we put the best view on it, it
becomes easier to forgive because we look at it with love. This is true of spouses, children, siblings,
parents or whoever you deal with.
God encourages us to see the best in
everyone. He empowers us to do this by
forgiving us.
His
love covers our sins and reminds us to forgive others. By seeing things in the best light possible,
forgiveness can be made a little easier.
God gives us ways to work through the struggles of life. We need to use them in order to live a life
that is both pleasing to him and beneficial to us.
Father of all goodness and
righteousness, we look to you for our salvation and our hope. Guide us by your hand to see others in their
best light. Let us listen to them with
an open heart. Help us to love as you
love. Protect us from the pain that the
world would have us live in. Help us to forgive as you forgive and to live in
peace with our brothers. In the precious
name of Jesus, our risen Savior, amen.
God’s
Peace,
Pastor
Bret