Good Morning All,
Ecclesiastes 4:4; “Then I saw that all toil and all skill in work come from a man's envy of his neighbor. This also is vanity and a striving after wind"
When
I was in high school, there was a country song by Waylon Jennings and Willie
Nelson titled “Luckenbach, Texas”. It
was a song that a man was singing to his wife. He was telling her that they
were “so busy keeping up with the Jones, a four car garage and we’re still
building on maybe it's time we got back to the basics of
love.” This is a common theme among
songs that can be popular; yet we don’t often live this way.
While our music seeks a simpler, easier
paced life, our existence seems driven to more and more. We seem driven to want more, buy more, demand
more and then be farther in debt. We
seem to always look at our neighbors and think that they really have it made; why
can’t I have that?
I recently visited with a lady who
experienced this first hand. She was in
her early fifties. She grew up on a farm
but went to school in the “big town” up the road. Her friends were “townies” and always had the
newest clothes, all had jobs for their spending money, always went to the
movies and ate a lot of fast food. She
rarely got new clothes, made most of them, worked in the farm for her dad so
had to ask for any money, went to a few movies and seldom ate at
McDonald’s. She always felt her friends
had it better than she did so she sulked a lot and felt sorry for herself. She skipped her class reunion until her 25th
when her husband made her go.
She was surprised when she started talking
to her friends. They were all jealous of
her when they grew up. She had a horse,
no nosey neighbors, she didn’t have to work; she had real home cooked meals and
her own room. When she talked with me,
it was bittersweet. On the one hand, she
learned that while our experiences may be different, in many ways they are the
same. Yet she also saw that for the first
40-45 years of her life she was mad at what she didn’t have instead of happy
for what she did. This she was changing
and was enjoying what she had and that was a loving husband, wonderful
children, fantastic friends and a grandchild on the way.
This is what our verse is telling us. We can rot with envy and jealousy or we can
see God’s gifts to us and enjoy the life we have right now. God’s Spirit gives us peace; peace with God
and peace with ourselves. The devil
tries to disrupt this and when he does; pain surely follows. God gives us the gift of a tranquil heart; a
heart at peace. Trust in God our Father
to take care of you and enjoy the simple gifts of life. Enjoy the love of your family and friends,
the stars at night, the sounds of nature when you can and especially enjoy the
grace that God bestows on us.
Dear
Father, you give us more than we need yet we demand more. Help us to enjoy the blessings which you
bestow on us with the joy that you desire us to have. In Jesus’ precious name we pray, amen.
God’s Peace,
Pastor Bret
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