Good Morning!
“All by
myself, Don't wanna be, all by myself anymore, All by myself, Don't wanna live,
all by myself anymore.” That is the
chorus to an old pop song by Eric Carmen.
He sang about having no one to turn to no one to talk to. He was living his life all alone. He felt empty, lost, and isolated. This is a common expression of many people.
A couple
weeks ago, while in a bookstore, I saw an anthology of some love poems. One was very bittersweet. The author (a male) was writing to his wife
or girlfriend. The title was “When you
don’t say ‘I love you’”. He lamented the
apparent indifference of his partner. He
felt empty, lost, and isolated. He wrote
of being “afloat in a sea of indifference” and “living in darkness with no
light of her love.” At times it was corny,
but you almost got the impression that the writer just sat down and wrote the
poem as the emotion poured out. He was
at an emotional loss.
This
can be a fear for many people.
Loneliness is one of man’s greatest fears. We are by God’s design social creatures. We long for and seek out companionship. We long for and seek out love. This is why ambivalence can cause so much
pain. We know love; we know hate, but we
struggle with indifference. It is that
indifference that that can cause loneliness.
Yet even when we feel all alone, we never are.
Jesus
is always with us. It is the devil and
the sinful world that wants you to feel all alone. Yet, just as God gave us these relationships
to help us live the life that he gives us; he also wants us to nurture those
relationships. By doing this, we
encourage each other. We strengthen them
according to God’s plan. Jesus is with us,
and he uses His Word, His Sacraments and His redeemed children to be with
us. He uses others to comfort and
console us; he uses others to bring us his love.
But
sometimes, Jesus uses US to bring this comfort to someone else. Sometimes you are the helped and sometimes
you are the helper. We need to see this
clearly. God entrusts to us His Spirit
and thus entrusts us to do his work here on earth. So, God desires that you and I give comfort
to our brothers and sisters in Christ but especially to our blood family and to
our spouses. Our blood family and
spouses are the truly special gifts that God gives to us. So, we need to be especially sure to show
them the love that we have for them. So
be sure this day and each day to express your love for your family; by doing so
you express Jesus’ love to them.
Dear
Father, too often we fail to express our love for our family. We fail to bring Christ to each other and in
doing so some feel lost and alone. Give
us the strength to fulfill your desire that all know your love. Be with those who are especially troubled at
this time and send your Spirit to those around them to bring your love to
them. In Jesus’ precious name we pray,
amen.
God’s Peace,
Pastor Bret
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