Good Morning All,
I always remember the line about how
“there is no such thing as bad press.”
This usually pertains to entertainers and to the idea that as long as
your name is in front of the people, as long as they think about you, then you
are still famous. The public may hear
that you were picked up for drunk driving but at least you are still in the
public eye. This is especially true for
the not so famous anymore who grasp past glory.
“No such thing as bad press.”
You and I may scoff and snicker at that
but to a certain extent we are the same way.
We like people to think that we are important. We like for people to seek us out and “need”
us. We may even harken back to previous
experiences to remind people that we are important. This is partly why people refer back to
“scoring the winning point in a crucial game in high school” when they are 40
or 50 years old. It is why people refer
back to a time when they were on a board or served on some committee a few
years back; we want people to think we are important and that we matter and
that our opinion matters as well.
We may even shape our relationships around
the idea that we are important. We may
attempt to control relationships in this fashion. When someone threatens to “leave” a
friendship or other relationship unless their “needs” are met; they are saying
to the world, “I am the important one here.”
These relationships are often toxic and seldom last very long; for when
we take the attitude that any relationship is about “me first;” that
relationship will suffer greatly.
Here we need to see that a truly successful
relationship has both parties “crucifying” the old selfish self and being
reborn, through Baptism, as the new creation that is in Christ. We see our relationships as Christ does and
that is to look to love, to comfort, to aid others more than self. We live, not to feed the selfish nature, but
to be in Christ holy presence and to be Christ to the world; to be his hands
and arms, to be his voice and his ear, to be his shoulder and arms. We are to be the personification of Christ to
the world. We are to place Jesus first
in all of our doings, in all of our actions, in all of our relationships.
So, as we go forward, let us remember that
we have crucified the “old me;” we have drowned the me that demands to be first
and God has given birth to the new me which is filled with the desire to serve
Christ and him alone. It is not “me
first” but “Jesus first.”
Father of love
and mercy, in you we have hope. Lead me
to see that the old me is crucified and that the new me is in Christ’s image
and in his Spirit. Lead me to love and
not demand. Lead me to love and not
require others to serve me. Lead me to
be your servant by serving the needs of others.
In the precious name of Jesus, we pray, amen.
God’s Peace,
Pastor Bret
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